When that family member who never had kids to feed multiple times a day starts talking about how I need to rinse my jasmine rice first because….arsenic.
Posted on December 29, 2025

My 🌶️ take for your holiday reading👇🏼

If you’re not doing the dang thing…you don’t get an opinion, or a vote, or even a chance to give me your ‘well-intentioned advice’.

If you’re not building an online business.
If you’re not creating sales on social.
If you’re not raising 3 girls.
If you’re not prepping meals for 5 people daily.

If you’re not doing it then I don’t want your opinion on how I ‘should’ do it.

Of you’re a woman… someone will ALWAYS have a well-meaning opinion.

About how we show up for our biz. Or how we take care of our bodies. Or what we eat. Or what we wear. Or what size we are or aren’t or used to be or ‘need’ to be. Or what our kids should be eating or not eating. Or the activities they should be doing. Or the manners they should have. Or they need to talk more or they need to talk less. Or 57 other things…

If you’re a woman and you’re doing YOUR thing.
Someone’s gonna have an opinion about it.

And you can choose…
Do you listen to THEM
Or do you follow YOUR heart, your path, and what’s right for you + your family.

And it’s different for all of us. It’s why I LOVE and only offer 1:1 coaching!

We’re all so different and want different offers, marketing, sales goals, time capacity.

It makes it so much more FUN!
And you get to decide!

So what’ll it be?
Aunt Susie who’s never been married, never had kids, never built an online business’s opinion

Or yours?!

And when you DO listen to yours? That’s when things get really good. And feels so good it’s like you’re cheating + every days feels like you hit the jackpot!

That’s what I want for you in 2026!

And lmk….what’s some well-intentioned advice you chose not to take/listen to? 👇🏼

❤️❤️
Jordan